So, even though I’ve been trying to bribe her all day into telling everyone she’s only turning 13, (how am I going to be “29″, if she’s 16?…I’m just sayin’!!!),

Anyway…even though I’ve tried to suspend the hands of time, my youngest daughter, ASHLEY, is insisting on turning 16!!!!!!

Ashley came into the world having to be a fighter…and she still is.  I love her wit, her toughness and her complete lack of pretense.

She’s a free-spirit, my Ash, and I’m so glad that she has never lost that….I still remember when she used to climb trees in her frilly dresses or beat up the bully (twice her size) that was hitting her big sister… .

Don’t ever lose your individuality or your love of all kinds of people without judgment, Ash.  Your dad and I are so proud of the strong young woman you’ve become.

Happy Sweet Sixteen, Ashamaly - I’ll even sing to you if you want (I know how much you love that! ).

I love you so!